Naive vs. Nice.

Dear Sarah,
There are things I want for you. 
I want you to remain trusting, but remain safe. 
I want you to believe in the goodness of the world, but remember that not everyone is good. 
I want you to be generous, but not at your own expense.
I want you to continue to give people 2nd chances, but stop giving them 22. 
I want you to be able to forgive, but forgive and then let go of the bad people.
I want you to be nice to everyone, but not to those who intentionally hurt you.

I want you to be able to eventually get past some of the information you learned this weekend, but don't forget it's lessons. 

Much love,
you